Thursday, 1 August 2013

A Memory Bear Is Like A Friend

By Cathy Mercer


We all go through losses. It is an interesting invention to learn about a memory bear which can help you with your sorrows. You can get them made by someone else or make it yourself. Look for patterns online or buy them in the store. They are usually made from materials from a loved one who you miss or want some remembrance about.

Getting your loved one's clothing out such as his or her favorite pants or sweatshirt can be helpful to the making of this product. The crafter that you hire to do this work can cut some of the material out and then put it on the bear in a creative way. These are so charming and fun to look at. It can provide comfort for you as you go through the grieving process.

Losing someone that we love can be devastating. We loved them during the whole process of our time together and then we must undo any ill feelings we have about their absent. It does not matter why they are not in our life anymore. We must forgive the fact that they are gone. It is very painful. Go to a therapist and turn to your bear for your comfort.

Qualified counselors can do a lot of good if you trust them and they leave you feeling like you are in a safe environment. Try not to feel that going to one shows weakness. People used to think that way, but it is slowly changing. There should be no stigma with getting help. It shows strength to go to one.

Try to be open with him or her, but only if they are acting trustworthy. You should feel safe when you open up because there really is no other way to be open besides that. Try to tell them about this person who you lost and what it felt like to lose them. Share the memories you had with them and how it feels now to be without them.

One particular person who makes them said she started with the idea after losing her mother. Her mother died of a certain disease and missed her so much that she decided to do it in her memory. Many people have stories like this and that is why they are making these products to help others get over their loss like they did. It is nice when people bond together over the same type of tragedy.

These little critters are quite charming. They are cute to look at and fun to cuddle with. They can be made from clothing and pillow fabric, shirts, skirts, pajamas, special pants, or anything else that may remind you of the person you are grieving. It may make you more sad to see the garment on the critter because it will remind you so much of the person.

A memory bear is wonderful for those who are hurting. It can give great comfort for people that need it. Grieving is difficult to do alone so get a nice counselor to help you as well as your new bear. Also ask your friends to help you during this time. You will get through it so be patient.




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