There exists in the realm of Pickup Artists many schools of thought. Naturally with these school of thoughts there exists different gurus, experts, pickup artists, and disciples. There are systems that focus on just getting as much sex as you can, systems that teach you how to pick up as many women as possible, and those that teach you how to gain and maintain real relationships. All these pickup artist techniques are variations of a fundamental system but at different complexities. I personally dislike the sex systems because they are shallow, abuse the pickup artist techniques, and generally are cheap, quick fixes that skim on the art of attracting women. I prefer systems that focus on actual relationships and treating women like human beings instead of a talking blow up doll.
If you study pickup artist methods, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, ideology, code system, and ideals. Amongst the many pickup artist tactics and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first, if not the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and serves as the skeleton/guideline for many of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open.
You open the set (woman to be picked up), meaning you start contact by approaching them. This includes the feared cold approaches, pickup lines, and starting a conversation. Must also contain a Social Hook Point. This is the crucial moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (girls, group of women, group of guys/girls) want you to remain for a bit, because you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity through negging (playful teasing) or an interesting discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You have to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are many pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, tricks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), funny discussion, and so on.
A3. Male to Female Interest.
In this phase, The HB (Hot Babe) have to be baited into demonstrating her own value. This way, you're only attracted to her by her character or charm, other than her appearances. You must have her earn your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to evaluate if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you ought to be talking and chilling. This is to develop a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to loosen up and just chitchat with each other, find any commonalities, and start to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections
Emotional connection is just conversation taken to the next level. Here you want to throw in some stories that make you look vulnerable and sensitive such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you immediately want to escalate the physical connection through kino (touching). Kinoing is the best way to evolve out of the nasty "friend zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy.
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing becomes serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup strategies, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to intensify from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's remorse and you could blow it all!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery states: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "I just met you..." "Don't you think this is too fast...?" "Lets just make out..." Or just defends her important areas. The majority of women do not want to feel like a slut so they will throw up some form of LMR. The secret here is to not be needy and desperate but rather reinforce the idea that she desires this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and be sure to call/text her. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
If you study pickup artist methods, there exists a whole parallel universe complete with their own language, ideology, code system, and ideals. Amongst the many pickup artist tactics and systems, I will go over the world famous and legendary: Mystery's M3 Model. This is among the first, if not the first systems that was actually codified into a set structure and serves as the skeleton/guideline for many of the systems out there.
Attraction
1. Open
2. Female to Male Interest
3. Male to Female Interest
Comfort
1. Building Rapport
2. Building emotional and physical connections
3. Intimacy
Seduction
1. Arousal
2. Last Minute Resistance
3. Sex
A1. Open.
You open the set (woman to be picked up), meaning you start contact by approaching them. This includes the feared cold approaches, pickup lines, and starting a conversation. Must also contain a Social Hook Point. This is the crucial moment in the start of a cold interaction where the set (girls, group of women, group of guys/girls) want you to remain for a bit, because you are interesting. This is done by hooking their curiosity through negging (playful teasing) or an interesting discussion sparked by the opener.
A2. Female to Male Interest.
You have to get the girl interested, attracted, and/or intrigued in you first. This is done by DHV (Demonstrating High Value). The primary reason women are attracted to men is when men have a high implied value. There are many pickup artist tactics to demonstrating high value and they include: story telling, tricks, magic demonstrations, psychic readings, negging (veiled teasing), funny discussion, and so on.
A3. Male to Female Interest.
In this phase, The HB (Hot Babe) have to be baited into demonstrating her own value. This way, you're only attracted to her by her character or charm, other than her appearances. You must have her earn your interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Since you have already shown your high value from A2, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to evaluate if she is cool enough to hang out with you.
C1. Building Rapport
In this stage, only the two of you ought to be talking and chilling. This is to develop a sense of comfort with one another. This is the time to loosen up and just chitchat with each other, find any commonalities, and start to relate to each other.
C2. Building emotional and physical connections
Emotional connection is just conversation taken to the next level. Here you want to throw in some stories that make you look vulnerable and sensitive such as childhood memories and insights into your thoughts. After emotional connection has been established, you immediately want to escalate the physical connection through kino (touching). Kinoing is the best way to evolve out of the nasty "friend zone" into the sexual zone.
C3. Intimacy.
The C3 takes place at a possible sex location. The talking/cuddling/kissing becomes serious and now it's time to seal the deal.
S1. Arousal
When you get to this stage, it is beyond the scope of pickup strategies, but another topic all together: your sexual game. The important thing is to intensify from C3 to S1 smoothly, naturally, and with precise timing. If you escalate prematurely or unnaturally, the woman will get buyer's remorse and you could blow it all!
S2. LMR (Last Minute Resistance).
Mystery states: "Last Minute Resistance. This is the point of no return before sex occurs. It's often a freak-out moment for the woman." "I just met you..." "Don't you think this is too fast...?" "Lets just make out..." Or just defends her important areas. The majority of women do not want to feel like a slut so they will throw up some form of LMR. The secret here is to not be needy and desperate but rather reinforce the idea that she desires this and you are providing a service.
S3. Sex
Have fun and be sure to call/text her. Real artists don't abandon their art after its finished.
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