Japanese communication skill is not absolutely vital to score yourself a Japanese girl. I am acquainted with more than a few lotharios in Tokyo who can scarcely decipher the menu at a Japanese restaurant, but take home women with astonishing frequency. Anyone would be startled at precisely how far a couple of phrases in addition to a ton of gestures and grabby-handing can go.
However, if you think you can get away with speaking only English, think again. The fact of the matter is that most of the beautiful girls you see out in Tokyo can't English their way out of a paper bag. If conversing with you is too difficult, they typically won't be sticking around long enough for you to work your magic.
Japanese-English speaking proficiency will give you the opportunity to game pretty much any girl you see in Japan, native or non. And since most foreigners here can't speak much Japanese, you will differentiate yourself from the pack of come-and-go English teachers and foreign exchange students who didn't bother to pick up a copy of "Japanese for Busy People". In the world of dating, even and especially in conformist societies like Japan, standing out from the crowd in a positive way is always beneficial.
Also consider that the majority Japanese girls will be most comfortable speaking in their mother tongue. Speaking in an acquired language is a mentally demanding activity, and, sadly, young Japanese girls are not known for their intellectual vigor. If you want a girl to stick around for more than a few nights, you need at least some nihongo skills.
If that doesn't inspire you to pick up a Japanese book, then consider that most foreigners don't speak Japanese either. They are targeting the same girls as you are. Unless you consider yourself a cut above the average gaijin, you should increase your odds by learning Japanese and going for the girls who don't speak English.
A word of caution for the Japanophiles: Japanese girls will not get dirty with you just because you can read Shonen Jump. A out of shape, poorly dressed fella is unnoticeable to girls no matter how many obscure prefectural dialects he can ape. I ought to know, that used to be me.
In closing, you don't need to understand Japanese in order to get girls in Japan, but being able to will make the progression much simpler. If you intend on being in Japan for longer than several weeks, you should consider hitting your local language center.
Don't forget, "Come help me study" is really a terrific excuse to bring a girl to your place.
However, if you think you can get away with speaking only English, think again. The fact of the matter is that most of the beautiful girls you see out in Tokyo can't English their way out of a paper bag. If conversing with you is too difficult, they typically won't be sticking around long enough for you to work your magic.
Japanese-English speaking proficiency will give you the opportunity to game pretty much any girl you see in Japan, native or non. And since most foreigners here can't speak much Japanese, you will differentiate yourself from the pack of come-and-go English teachers and foreign exchange students who didn't bother to pick up a copy of "Japanese for Busy People". In the world of dating, even and especially in conformist societies like Japan, standing out from the crowd in a positive way is always beneficial.
Also consider that the majority Japanese girls will be most comfortable speaking in their mother tongue. Speaking in an acquired language is a mentally demanding activity, and, sadly, young Japanese girls are not known for their intellectual vigor. If you want a girl to stick around for more than a few nights, you need at least some nihongo skills.
If that doesn't inspire you to pick up a Japanese book, then consider that most foreigners don't speak Japanese either. They are targeting the same girls as you are. Unless you consider yourself a cut above the average gaijin, you should increase your odds by learning Japanese and going for the girls who don't speak English.
A word of caution for the Japanophiles: Japanese girls will not get dirty with you just because you can read Shonen Jump. A out of shape, poorly dressed fella is unnoticeable to girls no matter how many obscure prefectural dialects he can ape. I ought to know, that used to be me.
In closing, you don't need to understand Japanese in order to get girls in Japan, but being able to will make the progression much simpler. If you intend on being in Japan for longer than several weeks, you should consider hitting your local language center.
Don't forget, "Come help me study" is really a terrific excuse to bring a girl to your place.
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