What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you actually took a little bit of time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it basically helped to create you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. However, they are incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts damaged in one way or another and honestly there isn't any worse feeling that exists. You feel completely horrible for what appears to be a lifetime and the sensations of loss never appear to go. So long as we keep playing on the grand field of life, we're going to suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break from time to time.
But what if, when heartbreak occurs, we allow it to show us where we truly have to do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the pain of loss and be able to create something beautiful with it?
I'm not advising that we should attempt to ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try and take our own pain and birth something positive and beautiful out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that could make an incredible difference when we face deep difficulty.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all of that discomfort inside and make it into something else. Try writing, painting, speaking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's inside of you instead of letting it eat you day to day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
What if you actually took a little bit of time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it basically helped to create you?
These are hard questions to ask yourself. However, they are incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts damaged in one way or another and honestly there isn't any worse feeling that exists. You feel completely horrible for what appears to be a lifetime and the sensations of loss never appear to go. So long as we keep playing on the grand field of life, we're going to suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break from time to time.
But what if, when heartbreak occurs, we allow it to show us where we truly have to do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the pain of loss and be able to create something beautiful with it?
I'm not advising that we should attempt to ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try and take our own pain and birth something positive and beautiful out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that could make an incredible difference when we face deep difficulty.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all of that discomfort inside and make it into something else. Try writing, painting, speaking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's inside of you instead of letting it eat you day to day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it out. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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